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To be a shoulder or not to be a shoulder

There is nothing like a person who, when you see them, complains every time you see them. What do you do? How do you act? What do you say? Will they listen? There are more questions than answers sometimes, but most of the time they want company in their misery and complaining. They don't want to know about you, they are just wanting to vent and then leave you with the stress of it all. 

Here is my advise. If you will to be their friend, remain a shoulder to cry on, then make sure you realize they are not asking for your help, they just need to talk. When you are that shoulder, remember not to take on their issues, it will only frustrate you, but release their issues and continue with your life. I have had much experience with trying to solve the issue, but in the end they will do what they want and most of the time it is not what they should do. 

It is not easy listening to them gripe about their continued issues, not listening to your sound advise, and repeating the same thing over and over again, sometimes for months, even years on end. Don't set yourself up for failure, just let them gripe, complain, and then get on with your life. In the end everything will either work out for them, or you will have to move on and will no longer be able to be that shoulder. For those who don't want to be the shoulder, speak up and let them know you can't take on their issues, especially if they don't want to tackle them themselves. 

Well that is all for now, but remember you have complete control of our own life so live it! 

Until next time,

Yaya Diamond™

08/27/2018

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    Yaya Diamond

    Dream chaser radio was birthed by Singer/entertainer, and daughter of multi-platinum recording artist Evelyn Thomas, Yaya Diamond in 2008. Since she has interviewed many Grammy award winning artists, award winning producers, authors, inventors, etc. She built the station on the foundation of supporting others by giving them the opportunity to showcase their talents on the show. Yaya Diamond has shown the “Special Talents” of all who come on the show and not just celebrities, but people like you and I who have goals and dreams. If you are a dream chasers and want inspiration, and companionship on your journey then this is the best place to get it. Become a part of Yaya Diamonds Dream Chasers Radio today where we always dare to be different.

     

    JJ Kane

    JJ Kane has been in the music industry for 20 yrs. She started her musical journey at a very young age and went on to develop as an award-winning singer-songwriter.
    JJ toured the UK in her 20’s with the Asian Music Circuit in London, where she not only worked with some of the best Indian Artists but also some household names along the way, Talvin Singh had just won the Mercury Award and the tour JJ worked on was fusing classical Indian Music with contemporary Jazz. In her own words, JJ says “It was the best time in her career of on being the performing side of the industry, however, she recommends to any artist or band going on tour to TAKE YOUR OWN PILLOW, be prepared to play anywhere and to smile when it all goes wrong”, she openly admits she once sang a song completely the wrong way round at a ticket sale gig, winked at Neil Bailey her Guitarist and soulmate in music and whispered” I don’t think anyone noticed “! the laughter all the way home,and the ribbing even now still goes on !