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Our sponsor today is My Kingdom Resource  

 

IN TODAY’S BREAKING NEW’S THERE’S A NEW PHENOMENON TAKING THE NATION BY STORM. WHAT IS THIS PHENOMENON? WELL IT’S CALLED KINGDOM RESOURCE AND IT’S THE NUMBER 1 ONLINE CHRISTIAN BUSINESS AND TALENT DIRECTORY! 

FOR AS LITTLE AS $10 PER MONTH YOU CAN ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS OR TALENT FOR THE WORLD TO SEE! KINGDOM RESOURCE HAS A VARIETY OF PLANS TO FIT EVERY BUDGET AS WELL AS A FREE PLAN TO GET YOU STARTED. 

FOR THE NEXT 10 DAYS KINGDOM RESOURCE IS GIVING AWAY 30 DAYS OF FREE ADVERTISEMENT TO THE FIRST 300 SUBSCRIBERS WHO REGISTER FOR ANY OF THEIR PAYMENT PLANS. TO REGISTER PLEASE GO TO: MYKINGDOMRESOURCE.COM 

AT KINGDOM RESOURCE THEIR TEAM IS VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT FAIR BUSINESS PRACTICES AND CONSUMER SATISFACTION, THEY BELIEVE THAT ALL BUSINESS DEALINGS SHOULD BE TRANSPARENT, INTEGRAL, AND FAIR. 

SO WHETHER YOU’RE LOOKING TO ADVERTISE, YOUR BUSINESS, A BOOK, OR YOUR CHURCH MINISTRY, 

REMEMBER… 

“EVERYTHING YOU NEED IS IN THE KINGDOM”

To be a shoulder or not to be a shoulder 

There is nothing like a person who, when you see them, complains every time you see them. What do you do? How do you act? What do you say? Will they listen? There are more questions than answers sometimes, but most of the time they want company in their misery and complaining. They don't want to know about you, they are just wanting to vent and then leave you with the stress of it all. 

Here is my advise. If you will to be their friend, remain a shoulder to cry on, then make sure you realize they are not asking for your help, they just need to talk. When you are that shoulder, remember not to take on their issues, it will only frustrate you, but release their issues and continue with your life. I have had much experience with trying to solve the issue, but in the end they will do what they want and most of the time it is not what they should do. 

It is not easy listening to them gripe about their continued issues, not listening to your sound advise, and repeating the same thing over and over again, sometimes for months, even years on end. Don't set yourself up for failure, just let them gripe, complain, and then get on with your life. In the end everything will either work out for them, or you will have to move on and will no longer be able to be that shoulder. For those who don't want to be the shoulder, speak up and let them know you can't take on their issues, especially if they don't want to tackle them themselves. 

Well that is all for now, but remember you have complete control of our own life so live it! 

Until next time,

Yaya Diamond™